In college I studied Computer Science and forgot how to talk to women. As the only straight woman within reach, I soon became the de facto dating consultant for my male friends, despite my waning expertise. But what I soon realized was that sometimes the best way to date is to go off script. We had more important things to worry about, like the alarming decay rate of our attractiveness. If we graduated without a future husband in tow, the men in our class would forgo us for younger, dumber women. She advised we start the search as early into college as possible. Um, I thought, petting my two-years-younger boyfriend.
When you are around much younger people they generally state "Hey! Let's go do this NEW thing!!! Like it's gross desire or something? The relationship will be unhealthy?Are They Too Old/Young for You???
I guess many people would think that it's gross I guess they would at least have one thing in common. I'm not really talking about a regular relationship more of a series of dating type situations. It's not uncommon for people to wonder what it would be like to go out with somebody much younger or somewhat older than themselves just out of curiousity and fulfilling some need for different life experiences. In my case, even though I'm generally somewhat older than those surrounding me, I have a very high metabolism coupled witha very manic personality.
This tends to give the impression that, although I'm somewhat older than they are, I'm probably a lot of fun to be around and a regular ball of energy. This makes the idea of going out with somebody a bit older somewhat more palatable idea. I just don't get the whole attachment of gold-digger to the age gap if the woman is the younger one. It's always such a negative perception. Yet when its the guy who is younger there is no such thought. I don't necessary view that as a negative thing.
Some ladies just like to know that their men have the financial means to support them, and some ladies in their 20s are aware that their 20 something boyfriend couldn't afford the type of lifestyle she wants whereas men in their 40s can. Plus men in that age group are typically more sophisticated and experienced in life and those qualities can be quite attractive to some ladies.
But I do agree with the guys being younger bit Sajedene Because it is different. Guys never go for a girl because of money. If a young male wants a hot 30, 40 year old woman, it's for the same exact reason a 40 year old male wants an 18 year old girl.
There is no deviation in the reasons men have for pursuing women. Please Log In to post. This topic is locked from further discussion. What immediately pops into your head regarding this situation? I wonder if there's anything interesting I can pay attention to. Omni-Slash Follow Forum Posts: Colin Follow Forum Posts: Microdevine Follow Forum Posts: That this situation fails to satisfy the dating age formula by 2.
Why would anything pop into my head? What's the big deal?? HorseVillain Follow Forum Posts: Nothing is really coming to mind. I guess I just don't really care about what other people do. I mean, both of the people in this situation are definitely adults, and they're free to do what they want. That I want to high five the 41 year old guy.
You find out a 41 year old male and a 25 year old female are dating
Cause they are much cooler then the first pound. HorseVillain Yup, That's how I feel: At least its not two guys, cause that's wrong. See prop 8 for proof. The guy could already drive before the girl was born. Those are my thoughts. JonnyEagle Follow Forum Posts: If she's hot then.
40 year old dating 25 year old
FamiBox Follow Forum Posts: Shad0ki11 Follow Forum Posts: Well, they can be summed up by two songs: Kayne West - Gold Digger. Pixel-Pirate Follow Forum Posts: Originally Posted by yeahitsgotahemi. I used to know a girl who dated her boss who was 30 when she was only Originally Posted by steve Originally Posted by Pumpkinale.
Some People Say I'm Condescending First off, 40 isn't "soooo old", a 40 year old guy is still in his prime. Not everyone at that age is married with kids. Good luck to them I say. My bf has just turned 41 and he's uber sexy. Out of the whole group of guys in our fed, he's the one in the best shape, and the others are all in their early 20s. Guys at 40 are confident, self-assured, have their shyt together, are usually really good in bed and basically have everything going for them.
U were very close to saying something very sexy.
Originally Posted by paulpineda2. For those of us in the fitness community is a phenomenal age to meet hot women. You're in great shape from years of training and practicing your diet. Typically you have seen enough of the world to be a cool kat who can hold a conversation. You're going to be in the earning years so most of your debts will be paid and you'll be an "expert" at whatever you do.
If I don't find a cool ass chick in the next few years to settle with I'll be looking forward to being a ballin ass jacked 41 year old dude who slays 25 year old ass all day long.
Does that mean I can date 18, cuz I'd love to. Some call it obsession, I call it dedication.
Absolute turn off for me. My ex 24 dated a guy who was Inevitably i ended up being disgusted with her for it.
Double edge sword though. I am not getting any younger.
24 year old woman dating 33 year old man
When I am 30 or older you better believe I'll be pulling as many younger chicks as I can. The 1 thing that matters most to women is money. Older men have money. They will also die sooner than a younger man, leaving them with even more money in the end. I took a girl out once who was 29 and I was I ended up never going out with her again because she was hung up on age. Some year old dude.
Cynical Optimist, Extreme Moderate. The man's gone do the teacher for everything and she won't learn him nothing, in life it's fun when your girlfriend's learning you a lot of things, it's how you grow up.