John Hollywood writes about pop culture topics with a psychological twist; his articles are practical in nature with a "how-to" approach. Do you find yourself attracted to Scorpio men? Do you gravitate towards this sign for unexplained reasons? Are you involved with a Scorpio male who sends mixed signals, like being super passionate one minute and seemingly disconnected the next? In the material that follows, I'm going to share with you several well kept secrets about Scorpio males. Additionally, I will reveal the positive and negative traits of this sign in an unfiltered way.
My Scorpio just hit me with a "I appreciate your concern, his pet name for me. How do I fix this? I just said okay and changed the subject, was that enough? I'm a Pisces and hypersensitive to his tone. I've been briefly in relationships with Scorpios and have learnt that they simply don't tell u too many a times they love you like most normal men would so that you was your tail behind them.
Also, they do not like doing the chores of the house and often will marry someone who loves them and they can control that's why cancerians are a superb match. Regarding the distance, well they first try to believe it's something real and what they really want, study you while not in contact with you, then act according to your nature so as to make you their love slave.
Yes they are highly addictive that's why I prefer keeping then as my bedtime love lust attractions than doing real stuff as it lead to serious relationship only binding free me forever. Oh and yes, Gemini are great compatibility for sexual pleasures but do not enter long terms at all if possible. Yes these people do weigh the monetary gains and mostly you will never realize that due to an advantage of them being the ardent obsessive lover.
There are examples even in family where they marry and are almost never happy cause they do it for security and realize their love is elsewhere. Usually they marry one who love them than them being the donkey As realistic it can get. I have been seeing a scorpio man for almost 3 years I am Aries All of what you say is spot on with him as well. He is more of "actions speak louder than words" and won't tell me that he loves me, he knows I love him, but he will NOT say the words to me.
He acts so much in love when he is with me but then can turn cold and interested in TV or work or something. I am still around and with him every day I know if he didn't want me around, he would tell me My whole life revolves around him and yet we have no commitment. I'm a Pisces and my boyfriend is a Scorpio.
I've never been more drawn to another person in my whole life. We've only officially been together for 2 months but with him I can really see a future. This article was really helpful to me because he would tell me all these sweet and romantic thing and become very distant. I'm very patient with him because I also am afraid of being burned by love. I feel like he and I have a deep understanding of one another. However sometimes when he becomes distant I do get scared and worried, what should I do about that?
I have been with a scorpio guy for last 10 months,I have feelimgs for him,even told him about those but he nevers says anything clearly.
After reading this article,I felt like he only wrote this,each n every point what u have said matches with him. Thanx for this article. I m a Taurus girl n I get attracted to him like a iron piece to a magnet,for me,its the sexiest zodiac n he is the sexiest one I will ever find.
We didn't fight or anything he's going through finical ish. Because I love him so much and I'm scared of losing him. Scorpio men are the worst I have to wonder if they have conscience was with one tried to work with show him love and affection help him out financially and he turns around disgrace me for kind deeds showing. I don't like Scorpio men. Thank you for the informative article.
Quick question, would these traits apply to an individual that has their Venus in Scorpio if their sun sign is not? Aquarius girl here dating a Scorpio man. This guy has swept me off my feet in such a small period of time. We talk on the phone for 5 hours straight, we go to sleep with each other on the phone.
Note that we are grown ups in professional fields I just thought the whole speaking on the phone for so long was left back in middle, high school, clearly NOT. I mean, i like kinky and this guy, i mean is there such thing as "limits" when it comes to having sex with a Scorpio man? And i love it!!! But i must admit he is needy. But ladies, the Scorpio man will make sure you are okay and not in need of anything.
Provide, take care of me, and feel like hes in control I must admit a lot of times i just agree with him and let him get his way even if i dont fully agree He is very family oriented and literally started giving me that "wifey treatment" within A WEEK of knowing me All i can say is im falling for this guy live ive never felt before We do have our challenges.
But i just cant explain how someone can be so much like you, yet so different. Leo woman dating a Scorpio man. I have come to the conclusion that he is an alien hybrid and I am a victim of an alien love bite.
So confusing and convoluted, but have to truly say never a dull moment. The bane of dull and mundane never keep my attention.
Took a month for the man to ask me out. Became intimate on the second date, at his insistence, I might add. Great in bed, a 9 on a scale of 1 to He did not captivate me at all in the post-O period, a 0 on a scale of 1 to 10! This is the bizarre part Further stating it has nothing to do with me, it is all about him, but will not offer much further info, as I have found him to be very poor in the communications department, like pulling teeth. I am not selfish, love giving pleasure, especially orally.
Anyway, I respect his wishes and just give him space, actually never expecting to hear from him again. About a week later, he texts like nothing is wrong and wants to just meet and talk. I comply, and he is like a different person, very tender, sweet, affectionate I am completely off balance, thinking I walked into a different dimension or space warp.
What is going on with this Scorpio guy? Now, I have not heard from him in a day since the man professed his love over and over! Okay, either the energetic work I did on him wore off, or his implant was recalled and reprogrammed. He's a trip I can tolerate because I like truly like him, feel there is a special vibrational connection between us that could develop into a higher mindscape, but I need some insight to cope or I think I may just go past the outer limits of crazy than I was created to be.
Never have I encountered a creature such as this before! Maybe can endure more insults and hurt a bit longer to see where this strange path leads. I am a Cancerian woman and have only had one opportunity to date a Scorpion man in my entire life.
Last week was my dream come true I thought. We had both been praying for a mate and timing. We live in the same town, but not traveling in the same circle of friends. I'm a retired educator and he's as architect. Now I didn't pray for an architect, but I did ask the Universe for a man that knows how to build. We both expressed our excitement via our telephone conversation. It was last Tuesday, you know Tuesday's are war days, but we wanted to meet.
The photos I posted on the website were truly me and only one week old. I had taught school in my area so I posted another zip code to attract men from mile radius. Younger men have always been attracted to me, so I didn't want to date in the area.
I really preferred an educated man. I'm not a cheater an he shared that he neither is he. Well I asked my son to take my best friend to the dentist because I had to keep my spa day in order to prepare for this date. I only agreed to Tuesday because he was off today. We discussed that We would run our errands and that I would call him when I was finished. Then we would meet for drinks and hors d'oeuvres at a lounge at the convention center here. I was super excited and I accidentally left my phone at home without realizing it.
He called me while I was at the spa and of course I couldn't answer.
When I got home I could not find my phone so I try to retrace my steps. I found someone to help me find my phone. When I saw that he had text me asking what's up lady?
I waited 10 minutes. Then I start texting him pictures of myself to let him know that I was waiting and would wait. But I needed to hear from him! I finally reached him at 7: Calling every hour leaving a message.
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Reached him at 7: He said no that he was busy. I said ok and went on my way. I had already decided that he was the one. He called me back at 9 pm.
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To say " I should have met you with my stupid self". We talked till after 12 midnight and thought that we had gotten everything straight! I sincerely believed that there was something wrong with his phone and I stayed at that.How To Get With a Scorpio Man
He stated that there was something wrong with my phone obviously however we both went to bed happy. The next morning he had told me that he would call me when he reached the doctors office for his annual appointment. He text me and said good morning, WYD? I told him that my weed eater had messed up on me and he asked me to bring it to the garden and give him the address so that he could meet me over there.
We met and I was so excited because he was so tall and slim. I really didn't know what to say so I was kind of quiet. He asked me why was it that I only attended church on Wednesday nights. I said because I'm looking for a new church home and I want to finish out what I started with the youth group and the garden that we were raising. He didn't asked me if my ex-boyfriend attended that church as well?
And I think the truthful person that I am said yes! He then asked me to collect the weedeater and let's head to new Boston Road to the lawn more repair place. The other question that he asked me was did he look better on the photos of him or in person.
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I was so excited just staring at him, his Indian profile that I didn't say anything and he went on to something else, but I wish I had said you looked better in person because he did.
He had already told me that he was a sensitive guy, however I did not know exactly what that meant when he said it over the phone. So I got in my truck he got in his truck I went to the right and he went to the left and I never saw him again.
I was not aware that he was going to Grace off so fast then mile truck could not even keep up because first of all I had to turn around and go the direction that he was going, but I did try. I thought maybe the phone call that he received was an emergency so I didn't worry about it too much. I sent him an instant messenger text, just around 3: He sent me a sticker little heart-shaped balloons with the little squirrel waving at me. However I didn't see it at that time.
I was more interested in trying to find out what was the reason that. I've read lots about the Scorpio man but never anything this spot on and real. It's like you let out all of our secrets man!
I've found Cancer women are great matches for us. They really won't I take up with our crap the claw you when you s step out of line. I don't know if anyone out there can help me.
All posts are over 2 yrs old. I am a Sagittarius woman rising sign is Cancer dating a Scorpio make his rising sign is Scorpio.
We dated 13 yrs ago. He would tell me every now and then not to get serious. Then one night he told me he loved me while we were making love. I couldn't respond back. One reason is why would he tell me not to get serious but he did. Also, my daughter had gotten herself in a situation and I needed to protect her. I can't remember I'd I told him about this..
We ran into one another April 13 He called me the next day Good Friday. Things ended like we always did when we use to date and ended in bed. I need to tell him I have never stopped loving him and I couldn't do anything about our relationship back then. That for thirteen yrs I prayed he was safe, he was healthy, and he was happy. I so want to know if there was any chance of rekindling what we lost back then.
We have been seeing each other since. If anyone out there can give me any advice I will gladly take it. I'm glad I came across this hub. It seems as though our plans on reuniting have been postponed due to our various personal life circumstances Not wiser but we still both hold a fair amount of stubbornness. Wow,this is so cool.. Not consider to be his girlfriend, like huh?? And of course he keeps his disnants, is been a month haven't seen him, but we text few times a wk.
Should I ignored him? I miss him, I feel he doesn't love me. I'm Pisces ad my Scorpio does not believe in astrology strange right but he actually enjoyed this article. Aside from great sex, don't know why anyone would date one long term! They take everything too seriously, can't take any criticism or teasing but love to give you criticism and little suggestions you never asked for , play manipulative games, try to change your personality then criticize you for "not being yourself", have different shades of extreme moods, super type A personality, will never tell you what's wrong but will expect you to "just know" what's going on with them but if something's wrong with you, they're too selfish to even notice even though they are supposed to be sensitive and empathetic , highly insecure, kind of feminine, think it's so much fun for you to "figure them out", so they will do stupid and immature things to "keep you guessing".
Don't even try to hold their hand in public without asking for permission, overly concerned about what's "appropriate behavior" in public. You better make a good impression to make him look good. Haha, am I missing something? So many not fun things about Scorpio dudes.
He probably has a substance abuse problem and anger issues too. Anyway, writing a book here. Gotta go have fun time and awesome sex with my Sagittarius man. I'm a Sagittarius woman, and I know a Scorpio man.
I recognise much of what is listed in the article in this guy I know who is lovely by the way. I have one point to make: So no, you can't make my life a misery against my will. Even if I was living with a Scorpio male who has a grudge, there are ways to overcome or deal with it.
I can move out, I can use the occult to influence him in order to minimise his sting I have Jupiter in Scorpio , and a whole host of other tactics I have which all work. Also, anyone attempting to manipulate me will find that I have an uncanny ability to nip that in the bud FAST. I am a Leo woman dating a Scorpio man and now I finally understand so much by reading your article. Thank you so much for writing this because it explains so much to me why he acts the way he does. You have helped me to understand and to be a lot more patient and not take things so personal.
I kept wondering if I did something wrong knowing inside that I didn't. Patience is not a good point for me but I now understand that I have to work harder at being more patient and things will be so much better. Encina Scorpio for about 6 months now and I've run a lot if they don't like to talk about their feelings.
If he always has me stare deep into his eyes and he smiles really big as he's doing it. And every once in a while he'll say something. An hour we reply with what kind of a question is that? And your reply they're supposed to get when is that other girls do but it doesn't make me mad it just think it's an odd question and that kind of throws me off too cuz it's like does he want me to get angry?
And as far as sex goes he says I wear him out. And that I am beautiful. I like to know does he truly mean all this cuz I am crazy about him too before I start thinking with my heart instead of my head.
Could someone please help. I find this article great, BUT there's definitely mystery in it. You didn't exposed it all: I am reading this in order to know and understand more of my Scorpio partner. By reading all comments I see there's a lot of confusion around them. I must state that I have dated so far with three Scorpios. Two of them were born on October and they were open and sharing.
Now I am with my Scorpio partner for about 3 years and he was born in November and he is much more "Scorpio" like. Both water signs, both have trust issues and both suspicious both reserved. In his own time of course. It's hard for me to reach out to him because I don't want to get hurt or be disappointed. But I guess as him fixed and controlling and I flexible- I must make thr first moves, he challenging me to get out of my shell for him, something I never done for anyone else not even my previous Scorpios.
He wins them by far.. He won't give up. He wants me to reach first. We barely speak about what really in our hearts because we both so damn reserved and mysterious like- I never want other to know what I feel but we have such s strong telepathic connection. Im dating a Scorpio man, i gotta say i want to dump him for his lack of detail. Thinks Valentine's is just another day, im all about being sweet and cuddly and he is with me as well.
But when it comes to him showing it immediately, heck no. He's also very good at debating lol he won't keep his mouth shut. Always has an answer for everything and to me it comes off as rude!!
I feel like he's my friend; that's why i allowed the relationship to flourish. But everytime i tr6 to state something that id wrong to me, he feels like he does things wrong. And all I try to do is state my feelings towards the matter.
As an Aries , im honest and straight up. A big part of me wants to say bye, but another tiny part wants to give it a shot. Even tho he drives me crazy. Can you please help me? In simple-speak, water signs are deep.
Scorpio is particularly empathic with Cancer and Pisces. The scorpion species is considered an arachnid. For example, spiders are considered arachnids. Now you know a little more about the whole intuition thing. Why Scorpio and Cancer are compatible. Scorpio men are extremely logical. Gifted with strong listening skills, they have the ability to analyze complicated issues and find solutions.
This is a blessing and a curse. On the one hand, they can compartmentalize their emotions focus like a laser on a particular issue. Some have compared this personality trait to Mr. Spock Leonard Nimoy on Star Trek. In many ways, the analogy fits. Much depends on the situation. All Scorpios men and women are obsessive. But in the case of guys, this characteristic is amplified — empowered by a high degree of anxiety. At any rate, the good part of being obsessive is that goal attainment almost always happens.
The bad part, however, is that in pursuit of a goal, we can often make life hell for the people around us — particularly a mate. This trait too can be good or bad, depending on how you look at it.
Generally speaking, Scorpios are highly competitive. Athletically inclined, they excel at various sports. The same holds true in other life areas, such as career and business. Much of this has to do with the previously mentioned trait of obsessiveness. In romantic relationships, Scorpion men can be extremely aggressive. Scorpios are highly jealous creatures. The problem stems from being majorly territorial.
In turn, this leads us to mistrust others. This is another terrible trait to admit but you want to know the real deal about this sign, right? The reality is that many of us can be highly manipulative.
Simply to get what we want. Additionally, the manipulation stems in part as a reaction to the above-mentioned jealousy trait. While not true for all, many Scorpion men struggle with body image issues. This makes sense when one considers that the male version of this sign places a high premium on how they look. And because of the obsessive trait we covered earlier, the body image issues often become amplified. If you pick this up in your man, the best thing you can do is gently reassure him he looks fine.
Scorpios are well aware of how they tend to hyper-focus in unhealthy ways and are OK with reminders. Right or wrong, the Scorpio guy you like needs to be in charge. The men are born leaders and are usually very assertive and dominant. Teddy Roosevelt is an example of a strong Scorpio male.
That said, the guys do like partners who can make decisions. The one exception to this might be someone who is Pisces ; a sign that struggles with indecisiveness. Scorpions often solicit advice from others and infuse alternative viewpoints into the decision making process.
The key is to be a willing and partner. The easiest way to spot a Scorpio man is to look for the guy who is sporting a pair of sunglasses — even on cloudy days or at night. In the traditions of horoscopic astrology, Scorpio falls under the eight house.
This metaphysical structure holds a number of powers, including sensuality, sexuality, and mystery. Because the ice planet Pluto partially rules this sign, Scorpio often comes off to others as cool and distant. This is not intentional but instead, part of his persona.
In the case of men, this can cause them to get caught up in various activities. In turn, this can leave a mate feeling neglected. All you can really do is ride it out and trust that it will pass. One of the main reasons some women gravitate towards Scorpio men relates to rumors sex. He is passionate about his career, life, any hobby, religion and intimacy.
A Scorpio in love is the most romantic but an equally demanding partner as well. Scorpio men can be very caring and sensitive, but at the same time they are also very possessive. Though a Scorpio man exhibits a cool, unruffled exterior, he hides qualities like stubbornness and determination, deep within.
They also have a lot of pride and ego and guard their individuality very jealously. A Scorpio man believes in living life to the fullest and hence often indulges in activities of luxury. Though he will have certain negative traits of being over-possessive, a Scorpio man can be a very loving partner, who is considerate about your ambitions as well.
Tips for Dating a Scorpio Male. Being in a relationship with a Scorpio can be a heaven or hell of an experience, it's all in your hands. If the man you are dating is a Scorpio, then you can be sure that you are into a relationship that you are bound not to forget. Get ready for an unforgettable and fascinating experience of dating a Scorpio man by using these simple tips:. Just as he is passionate, loyal, resourceful and observant, your Scorpio can also be suspicious, manipulative and unyielding.
So handle your guy with care, so as not to trigger this negative side of his. Also remember that, your man is very fragile and sensitive, so always hold your tongue and speak only after thinking. In spite of this, remember to treat him well and make him feel that he is someone very special to you.
So, if you are dating a Scorpio man, just play it safe and let him go according to his plans, as a Scorpio man can never go wrong with his plans.